003 - Male Loneliness Epidemic, My Ass.

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This one’s fresh off a 2000s dance party—and I’ve got a hot take for the men still standing on the sidelines. If you've ever looked around the club and thought, “Why do all these men look like they were dragged here against their will?”—same, babe.

In this episode, we’re calling B.S. on the so-called male loneliness epidemic and unpacking what women are actually tired of: doing all the emotional labor while men lurk in the shadows with zero effort and even less energy.

🔥 We’re talking:

  • Why effort > rhythm

  • Why “I’m just not a dancer” isn’t an excuse for being boring

  • Why the problem isn’t loneliness—it’s entitlement without effort

You want connection? Then get out of the corner. Smile. Engage. Try. Because we’re done dragging grown men to the dance floor.

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If being picky means expecting effort and basic social energy, I’ll stay picky.

Ellyn | Burnout Coach & Speaker

Helping overwhelmed high-achieving women in business to work less and live more. Since 2017, I’ve become a burnout and stress management specialist and expert helping clients to create more sustainable routines, more supportive systems, and the clarity and fulfillment they want in their lives so that they can finally heal from their hustle and take back their lives. As a former research scientist myself, I bring a healthy dose of evidence-based strategies to the notion of burnout. I’m a certified coach, have multiple stress certifications, am a certified Hell Yes podcast guest, and am a Senior Contributor for Brainz Magazine. Hiya!

https://coachellyn.com
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