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Dating Ellyn | Burnout Coach & Speaker Dating Ellyn | Burnout Coach & Speaker

Dating From a Burned Out Place (It’s Not Just You)

Ever walked away from a “perfectly nice” date and still felt off about it? That’s not you being dramatic—it’s your intuition doing its job.

In this episode, we’re diving into the subtle (and not-so-subtle) moments when your gut speaks up and what it actually looks like to listen.

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Dating Ellyn | Burnout Coach & Speaker Dating Ellyn | Burnout Coach & Speaker

Male Loneliness Epidemic, My Ass.

This one’s fresh off a 2000s dance party—and I’ve got a hot take for the men still standing on the sidelines. If you've ever looked around the club and thought, “Why do all these men look like they were dragged here against their will?”—same, babe.

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Dating Ellyn | Burnout Coach & Speaker Dating Ellyn | Burnout Coach & Speaker

I'm 36...And Starting a Dating Podcast? Oh Boy.

Why would a 36-year-old high-achieving solopreneur—who’s definitely still single—start a dating and relationships podcast? In this very first episode of You're Too Picky, Ellyn gets radically honest about her own dating history, insecurities, and the real reasons she's launching this pod.

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Dating Ellyn | Burnout Coach & Speaker Dating Ellyn | Burnout Coach & Speaker

Are You Too Picky?

You’re Too Picky is the dating podcast for high-standard women who are done settling and over the bare minimum. Hosted by burnout coach and serially single millennial Ellyn Schinke, we’re talking dating apps, red flags, emotional labor, and the wild world of intentional dating. Come for the rants, stay for the solidarity. This isn’t a fixer podcast—it’s a f*ck it, let’s talk about it podcast.

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Entrepreneurship, Dating Ellyn | Burnout Coach & Speaker Entrepreneurship, Dating Ellyn | Burnout Coach & Speaker

How Dating & Business Are the Same (And Why You're Self-Sabotaging Both) - ft. Michal Kaye

🔥 Think your love life and your business have nothing in common? Think again. If you've ever wondered why you keep attracting the wrong clients (or the wrong partners), why you’re stuck in a feast-or-famine cycle (in business or dating), or why you keep self-sabotaging your success, this episode is for you. In this no-BS conversation, I'm joined by Michal Kaye, business and mindset coach, as we break down the unexpected parallels between dating and running a business.

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