Dating From a Burned Out Place (It’s Not Just You)

Ever walked away from a “perfectly nice” date and still felt off about it? That’s not you being dramatic—it’s your intuition doing its job.

In this episode, we’re diving into the subtle (and not-so-subtle) moments when your gut speaks up and what it actually looks like to listen.

🔮 Here’s what we’re getting into:

  • The Planner Guy who expected me to plan the date… because I said I liked calendars?

    • Why trusting your dating gut isn’t judgment—it’s clarity

    • That one date that was fun… but just not it (aka, Disc Golf Guy)

    • The man who turned “what are you into?” into a full fantasy checklist (including talons and lawn maintenance 🫠)

    • The difference between curiosity and objectification

    • Three questions to help you gut-check any interaction

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💬 Submit your stories for future segments like Red Flag or Nah, Too Picky Hotline, and WTF Dating App Moment at ⁠coachellyn.com/submissions⁠

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If listening to your intuition is “picky,” I’ll take it. New episodes every Friday. See you next week.

Ellyn Schinke | Head Coach, Tutor, & Notion Nerd

Sustainable performance coach, Notion Ambassador, and academic tutor helping high-achieving founders and students build systems and strategies for the long game. Founder of Coach Ellyn LLC and host of the Burnout-Proof Podcast.

https://www.coachellyn.com
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